Mens's Relationship with Women.

This kind of relationship is one that requires extra caution if we must get it right.  A good number of Nigerian men don’t value relationships.  To our men, it’s all about how much you have in your pocket.  However, I don’t really blame you because my fellow ladies have made you believe there is no relationship without a fat bank account.

Men now believe a girl can be treated anyhow and be pacified later by a fat cheque, exotic ride, and holiday to the Caribbean.  Maybe it has been working for you simply because you have always met the greedy ones.  However, a time will come when you will fall head-over-heels in love with a girl only to have her walk out of your life.  Then you will come to agree with me that there are dos and don’ts in every relationship.

So many relationships in Nigeria are in trouble because our dear men have refused to see women as partners.  To them, she is just another piece of furniture and should be treated as one. Men still believe a woman should be seen and not heard.  I still wonder when I see men beat their wives and girlfriends.  This has led to the breakup of so many relationships, as the lady would rather live outside the relationship than die in the relationship.