With the recent craze for marriage
amongst single women these days, I’ve kinda noticed or observed a developing
trend in recent marriages, it might have existed, but I think it’s now the
in-thing around; women do not want to bear their
husband’s name any longer.
Before now, a lot of women for one reason or
the other used what we call ‘compound names’ that is, their maiden names and
then husband’s names. This was mostly
used by women who had achieved a level of success before getting married, or
who had a famous last name and so still held on to their maiden names with
their husband’s name coming last. We have
people like Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, Stella Damasus-Aboderin (I don’t know the
newest husband’s name) and a host of others.
I know it’s probably a little
difficult transitioning from one name to another, and it might take a little
time to catch on to, but a lot of people have done it and it still didn’t change
who they are or what they do, we have the likes of Chioma Akpota, Dakore Akande,
and Annie Idibia etc.
Now, we have a totally different
set of people who do not even have any interest in bearing their husband’s
names. A couple of days ago, a husband
took his wife to court for refusing to bear his name since they got married
three years ago and begged the court to dissolve their marriage. The wife said she was comfortable with her maiden
name and had no intension of changing it. Really?
Personally, I have always
imagined myself bearing a Mrs. something, probably Mrs. Onyinye Wellington (who
knows, miracles still happen you know). I
believe marriage is total-package deal; you get the man and his name, it’s not
really an option, unless off-course your husband is comfortable with it. Why bother to get married when you are so obviously not
ready to leave daddy and his name?
What do you think?
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