Thursday, July 5, 2012

My Mr Perfect

I just thought of how I want my future husband to look like: tall-at least six ft- dark, as in deep chocolate cream colour, well built, flat stomach -no pouch or sagging heap of flesh- someone who can lift me up and hold me for at least five minutes, I want him to be as handsome as sin, have the sexiest smile ever and a little dimple when he smiles. I don’t want a beautiful man, I’d rather he be ruggedly handsome and exude male sexiness everywhere he goes. I want a patient man who will tolerate all my eccentricities with his sexy smile and deep chuckle. I want an attentive man (I love attention a lot), I want him to be caring, not overly possessive or emotional, a great cook who doesn't mind cooking occasionally, and did I mention he has to be well built? He should be playful but serious and hardworking, with a great sense of humour and a perfect command of English. He should be faithful, and most importantly, he should have money, not necessarily plenty, but enough to take care of our needs. Perfect right? Well that’s what I want and I am betting a whole lot of other girls want this too. There's just one tinny tiny problem here, I don’t know if these kind of men exist or where to find them even if they existed. Anyways, every girl has a right to her dreams, and this is mine. So am going to continue dreaming, until he comes and sweeps me off my feet! Some people might think am crazy to even think of this, but is it so wrong to want something this good? or to wish yourself the best? Abi who no like better thing? Next week, we will look at some of the dangers of wanting and waiting for this kind of men (who most probably do not exist), and why a lot of women are still single.

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  1. This is the first time ill be commenting on your blog. You are so much like me in many ways.
    Well as for me I've categorised all his qualities into a simple quadrant called Uche's Quadrant. He must score at least 65% in each of these areas(Career, Looks, Faith/Religion and Family Background)
    Recently, i met this dude at work in the canteen(one of the telcos) and he isnt fine ohh, but he sabi speak english well and is very intelligent.
    As a CSI that I am I check up his profile on LinkedIn and i'm impressed. Hes Ibo just like me and Anambra to be specific, the silly things i check like the way your name and last name sound , he passed those.
    But...........I cannot date this guy for i love fine men much as he is giving me all the necessary attention.
    .....just being sincere ohh

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  2. tanx so much @ Tavia.i dey feel you jare,i have a thing for fine men too,and i also have my own Quadrant too,he needs to pass at least 65-70% too. but i guess at a stage we have to look beyond the fineness of these men and focus on their inner strengths.so if the guy you met isn't so bad looking,and he meets half of your quadrant,then just give him a chance and see...unless he looks like a cross btw obj and wesley snipes,then i ll say,hell NO!

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    1. Lol,abeg if u hv all these qualities don't jus walk-by o,holla @ me pls!

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  4. Hhmmmm! You want him to have six packs, even dimples, no sagging heap of flesh"no pouche". My dear, it is going to be a long wait! Do u have a flat stomach? in all u listed, what do u score yourself? Truth! Are you worthy to be called someone's miss perfect? That should be a food for thought for the ladies. okbye! i think i have typed too much..

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    1. Lol my dear,am no where no perfect o,dats y I said "he's my dream man". Anyways,my stomache isn't so flat o(sad)but am workin on dat one. I loved wot u said,I hp u don't mind dat I used it for my new post.

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  5. I know am a total jerk presently.Not that I drink or fornicate,,not at all.Just that am insensitive when it comes to girls and I've not gotten my priorities right.I've made up my mind to start doing things right and reasonably and am still working on myself. Every time I think of my future wife I feel sorry for her cos if she knows how I live my life now, I bet she will say a big NOOO.Am too nerdy, like am a stupid geek.But then am still doing it cos of her,we will never be poor.Undoubtedly, I'm on a mission of total behavioural transformation cos I want a perfect man for her.I don't have a girlfriend and I don't plan to have one until I sharpen my weaknesses.Am going to give her a husband her friends will be jealous of.I don't like politics, but by the time am done with myself am gonna give my future wife a husband she will happily gist about with God when we both make heaven after our sourjour on earth.Am not drunk , but that's part of my plan. We not only gonna live together on earth, we're also making it to paradise.Mind you , am just 17+ and still an undergraduate.

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    1. Lol,u seriously got me for a minute there. And here I was thinking I'had Met my Mr perfect.

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